Again, training and understanding your
dog is rooted in knowing about Dog Body Language and Pack
Behavior.
You are tired and glad to be home. Boomer is jubilant
to see you. Whether he claws your legs, collides into your chest,
or knocks you sideways, Boomer welcomes you home. This reception
may be acceptable to you. Unfortunately, relatives, friends, children,
and delivery people may not care for Boomer's social graces, and
may possibly be injured.
Puppy or adult, Boomer is trying to greet you appropriately,
for a dog. He wants to lick your lips, either to show his respect
for you as the leader or stimulate your gag reflex to produce the
meal you've brought back from the hunt. Why else did you leave the
den?
The reaction you demonstrate is appropriate, for
a human. You might kneel down and lavish Boomer with petting, talking,
and looking into his big, loving eyes. You might be annoyed, back
away, push Boomer off, look at him, and tell him what you think of
his manners. Either way, you have praised and trained Boomer to continue
this behavior.
Simply put, what you do immediately after a dog
does something encourages or discourages that particular behavior.
Besides food or play, three strong rewards are: eye contact, touch,
and a pleasant voice.
Both reactions described above contain these three
rewards, even if you intended different results. Boomer will most
likely repeat his welcome as you are inadvertently training him to
do so.
Seeing the situation from a dog's view, try this
solution.
As Boomer is rapidly closing the distance between
you and is about to leap into his enthusiastic welcome, suddenly
sidestep and turn your back to him. With your arms across your chest,
empty or holding your packages, be still and do not look or speak
to Boomer. Keep turning your back on him and watch him out of the
corner of your eye until you see Boomer sit in bewilderment. When
he sits, immediately look at him, praise him, and give him a short
rub on his chest. If Boomer stands or jumps, turn your back on him
and repeat the whole process.
Boomer will soon catch on that he can welcome you
while his rump is on the floor. If your family and friends follow
your example, Boomer will learn that by sitting he will gain the
coos, petting, and loving attention from many people.
Oh, the power of a politely sitting dog! |